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Aislin
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Posted on Wed, Aug 02, 2006 17:19

It seems like that's a term that's almost forgotten these days. Maybe those of us with a romantic heart seem to remember that there is this special ONE that completes us in ways we never imagined. To be honest, that's what I'm hoping to find. How about the rest of you?


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Posted on Thu, Apr 12, 2012 18:58

Soul mates?!? It sometimes seems extremely dangerous to believe that only one in a billion can be the perfect match. Perfection... Yet another one of those dangerous beliefs. I think that sometimes we press ourselves so hard to achieve the extremities of things and forget that the ride is what makes the goal so much sweeter. Honestly, I think there are more than just one person that can be a match to each person, but that doesn't mean that I don't believe in monogamy... I think that the a persons soul mate has to be the person that fits you as a human being in a particular moment in which you both meet and that grows with you thru out time. In a nutshell I do believe in soulmates, but not in the idea that there is just one soulmate for every person.


A woman that is convinced that our utopias are useful for walking. Or like I like to say in spanish " Las utopias sirven para caminar".

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Posted on Tue, Jul 08, 2008 02:17

I totally believe in soul mates and I really can't wait to find mine, or for her to find me. ^_^


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Posted on Tue, Jun 24, 2008 02:11

I'm lucky enough to have my soulmate, my gorgeous girl, I just adore her. We live 400 miles apart and don't see enough of each other - usually a few days together every month. When we do it is wonderful and I think the distance keeps our relationship as fresh and intense as the first time we met - 5 years ago. I am coming up to 61 and have had lots of relationships through my life but none like my darling M. We speak several times a day and either one of us can be just about to dial when the other rings. We have many common interests, we may disagree on things sometimes but never bicker or row, we are tolerant of each others shortcomings, totally supportive of any aspirations or ideas. I have loved before, but I have never felt such tenderness for another human being. We are both great romantics and constantly buy each other presents or write poetry. We know whatever the other wants or needs instinctively - both physically and mentally. Our lovemaking is beautiful, sensual, mesmeric, each caring more that the other should get pleasure than themselves (and believe me, girls, sex gets better and better and better the older you get!). Yes, I know there are such things as soulmates. Hope you all find yours someday.


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Posted on Tue, Mar 11, 2008 09:33

well, i do. i felt in love with a woman who was about twice my age and pregnant. it was the first time i ever felt like this for a woman (i knew before that i like woman, but first love is always special). wow, that showed me how intensive emotions can be... she was of course not in love with me and i felt like every little part of my body and soul was burning. but when i imagine that someday ill hopefully find someone who really loves me and with whom im in love with its just great. i need this hope. if i didnt have it id be dead within a few seconds.


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Posted on Fri, Apr 06, 2007 23:51

I believe in the same, I'm only 19 and i hope that there is someone out there just for me. I hope.


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Posted on Fri, Feb 16, 2007 19:36

I sincerely believe in soulmates cause I'm fortunate enough to have found mine. I also believe there's someone for everyone.


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Posted on Wed, Nov 22, 2006 22:11

I whole heartidly believe that there is someone for everyone and to those of you who feel hopeless because of your age or failed relationships, you can only cling to your hope. It may sound sad but if you die without truely finding that "someone" I believe you will find them in some sort of after life or in the next. I believe you find them only when you are ready for them and usually when your not looking so hard. I don't believe we find "the one" until our lives and the deepest parts of ourseleves are completely ready and for some that may be never .........sad but I believe very true.


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Posted on Sun, Nov 19, 2006 18:27

For those romantics that believe, I can tell you from experiance that there is such a thing as finding your soulmate. I had to travel half way round the world to find mine but i know she is the one. I was 15, from another country and stayed one night with a family in the states who had a daughter the same age and in the team we were playing against. We were strangers but stayed up all night just talking. Twenty years later and still worlds apart, we are still talking and we both know what we have found in each other. It is true that you can find your soulmate in this world..........


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Posted on Tue, Nov 07, 2006 03:04

Hello there! New to the site,and want to share my thoughts on the Soul-mate ,from my experience as follows . Like Spencer,I travelled to find her,she was the opposite to any woman I had ever known,older,rich,deeply involved in her family,business and very experienced in the art of seduction. I first worked for her brother,then as time went on she started to step in to my work area. She would go out of her way to (200 miles)to show up unannounced where I worked.I noticed my things had been gone thru,subtly but she was curious. To cut to the chase,she staged an incident that made it my"duty" to be in her employment. I soon recognised she wanted more than my labour,and we flirted openly with the family unaware of her intentions.(She had siblings no husband or children)But everyday that went by our flirting intensified to a climax that was entirely out of control. It was finally a relief to be "kidnapped"to a 5star resort where we slaked our trhirst time and time again over 3days. I should tell you this story doesn't end well,as I lost everything after all. We continued to work together but our unequal ness made itself evident,but not for a long time.Me Worker Her Boss. She was a very old hand,and knew what to do with them . I was a young mum and still in the closet ,(her too)but I was obliged to put priorities above our r/ship. The thing that stood out with us was the fact that as we merged we became interchangeable so to speak. If she wasn't there I would do her thing and she mine if I wasn't.In a few instances we "were" each other. Yeah!really! In the end I called it quits, as my child grew I felt there was 'something' not right about swapping roles in this way. It was too confusing for a small child to be in the "blending" of 2 women as we were doing everything as the other would do it so it wouldn't change anything if we weren't there. Very spiritual,but scarey too. I spent 4yrs with her but spent another 10yrs cleaning house to remove that side of me to function as myself wholly again. Its the yin/yang up/down etc thing ,we seek that which we aren't to complete us,but the real soul-mate is there all along. It is a quest and it is my story,but I wish you love and light on your journey


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Posted on Thu, Sep 14, 2006 08:39

Hell yeah!! I thoroughly believe in soulmates. I thought I found her, but she let me down..hurt like HELL!!!!!!! I'm still looking for her. She's out there to be cuddled and cared for like a natural woman!!!! All my love is here for her. If I don't find her, I will enjoy whomever I'm with. Love lasts forever!!!!!


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Posted on Sun, Sep 10, 2006 04:30

Yes i believe you can find your soulmate ...i am new to the site here, i posted a few pics and i was on another site prior to this one and seems like on that other site all these young girls would hit on me ,or the married ppls wanting 2 somes lol i DON'T THINK SO.. and i am not into the young 20 yr olds,no offense to you 20 yr olds out there , i know i do not look my age ,and i can fit in any age group...but there is someone out there for everyone :) you just have to be patient,it takes time *S*


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Posted on Sun, Sep 10, 2006 04:30

Yes i believe you can find your soulmate ...i am new to the site here, i posted a few pics and i was on another site prior to this one and seems like on that other site all these young girls would hit on me ,or the married ppls wanting 2 somes lol i DON'T THINK SO.. and i am not into the young 20 yr olds,no offense to you 20 yr olds out there , i know i do not look my age ,and i can fit in any age group...but there is someone out there for everyone :) you just have to be patient,it takes time *S*


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Posted on Sun, Sep 03, 2006 14:04

I believe in soulmates. I've found mine but that person died. However, I also believe that I'm not limited to loving just this one person. I'll find someone again, not a replacement but one who will receive the love that I cannot give to the one I lost. In the end, love is a choice and relationship is a choice two parties make. I will choose to love.


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Posted on Sun, Sep 03, 2006 01:35

I believe in soul mates, I just don't believe that everyone will find theirs. I think sometimes people get so blinded by what they perceive to be "love" that they lose track. Like, if you think you're in love with someone you might thing you two are soul mates, then if something goes wrong you'll realize you weren't. If/when you find a soul mate, you'll know, for the rest of your life.


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Posted on Sat, Sep 02, 2006 08:31

I believe it's possible. Definitely!! However, let me give you a scenario: what if you find that perfect someone that completes you. That someone that you bring the best out in. Then that someone suddenly decides after you've fallen in love with each other that she wonders about her ex that she's tried with 5 times. You let her go and say, I'll be your friend and watch you attempt a relationship with this person again. I'm bowing out and trying to stay in your life because I love you. I did that. And it hurts like hell. Seeing them kiss and hug breaks my heart into pieces. But I want to be there for her while she tries for the 6th time because I do love her and want her to be happy. Is that crazy. BTW: I've been staying with her for about a month while I'm in transition. I'm moving to my place next weekend. This story is way too long to tell all at once, but if anyone can give me any insite. I'd LOVE it. BTW: She's my first. I was married. I fell in love with her. But she's not the reason for my divorce. I kills me to see her everyday and not be able to touch her and kiss her and tell her that I love her. So, it's soooo much more than while that is AWESOME!!!! Geez!! I'm happy now though. I feel comfortable in my own skin. Being with a man for 11 1/2 years was so uncomfortable for me, but I now understand why. I feel free. Like why did I wait so long to be true to myself. I always thought they were just thoughts my whole life. Well, I guess not. Anyway.... I love her. She does complete me, however; I guess I'll have to let her complete me as my friend. I think the relationship with her ex is more because it's comfortable to her. They were together off and on for 10 years. When does the madness stop. I guess my first experience being in love with a woman has been the best one. I refuse to let it harden me though, because I'm very romantic and loving.


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Aislin
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Posted on Mon, Aug 28, 2006 16:22

That's what I'm looking for..someone to complete me. To be my strength where I am weak and I be hers where she is.


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Posted on Sat, Aug 26, 2006 19:55

There is such thing, its feels from people in love, a true love a completeness...


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Posted on Thu, Aug 24, 2006 18:06

ya im only 18 and i belive there is someone out there just for you., and i cant wait to find her


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Posted on Sat, Aug 19, 2006 16:21

I beleive that there is some one out there for every one. I'm only 22 but i wish to fine some one some day.


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