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cataura
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Posted on Tue, Nov 10, 2009 07:57

So I find myself at home night after night searching through several dating sites. I am not in search of "the one" I am simply seeking friends. People enjoy being pen pals but never want to do anything. Do I have to ask these girls out on "dates" just to hang out as "friends". I look for people with similar situations, like new in town, I am new in town too! You would think two new people would easily become friends. Wrong! I have been back in NY 5 weeks now and still no friends :( I have a theory that the best relationships stem from friendships. I think getting to know somebody without the feeling of lust polluting your mind is the best way to go about it. SO if anyone out there wants to be my "friend" with endless possibilities to come let me know. I look forward to comments or ideas of how to meet new people


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Posted on Tue, Jan 05, 2010 23:45

I am in the same position only on the other side of the country....what am I to do ? Unlike NYC I am in a very small town on the edge of Washington state...many travelers, many locals who have only bars to entertain them in the off season. None of which I am interested in for any type relationship but as a writer, very interested in for the value it gives me for my career. Yet, I don't know how to act...its a small town, and I didn't come out til I met a lesbian, and fell in love with her, which even after a Canadian marriage did not work out. I finally left, found myself in a small town near Canada hoping to work out things, but it is clear now I am on my own with my entire family back East having to deal with my new life without me there...I miss my kids, my family and my wife....but I have to move on...but how...? where is the manual? somehow I have to figure out how to continue to be what I am, where I am. Geez....talk about God not giving ya more than you can handle....she might be wrong on this one. I am so close to giving up its insane. Needless to say I feel - act - and am told look - 35 or so , but I am one month away from being 50. !!!! Will I make it ? sure, cause the summer time in this part of the country is awesome and no matter if I am alone or in love, I will not miss that. But I need friends...not dating, just friends. I wish I knew which foot went first.


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Posted on Thu, Dec 31, 2009 18:45

Hello darling :) that is a very nice blog, and you are totally right :) if you want to chat email me :) ttyl ;)


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Posted on Thu, Nov 26, 2009 16:48

Hi. I live in CT., where in NY are you? I can relate to your angst as so many people will chat with you and then decide for what ever reason that tehy're not available (To even chat?). I too am looking to meet new friends without any entrapment. I also believe your theory about beings friends first. If love doesn't bloom from one friendship, so now you have a friend, most probably for life- what's the harm in that?


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Posted on Thu, Nov 19, 2009 03:34

Hi, I will love to be friends with you. I live in Singapore.. Also hoping to get a chance to know new friends.


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cataura
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Posted on Fri, Nov 13, 2009 05:44

Why no comments ladies? I need your help!!!


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Posted on Wed, Nov 11, 2009 08:13

I live in Western Upstate New York (Fingerlakes Area) I live in a town with the population of just over 2000...leaves not much room to find friends *like me* let alone find someone for a relationship...I have been single for 10 years now and am in no hurry to become a UHaul Lesbian!!! Not sure what part of NY you are in but if you are within an hour or two i would consider hanging out...going to lunch...hiking...doing something...I don't watch TV except on occassions at night...not a bar fly so i am not really into that scene but i love to shoot pool...not much of a drinker the older i get...i do like wine with meals and while cooking...i am complicatedly simple..haha..i know that isn't a word but anyhow...take care...have a wonderful day!!! Peace Jill Potter...FB and MS user...daily...not a premier member here!


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