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cherry2003
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Posted on Mon, Jun 09, 2008 13:40

There is this HOTT nurse i work with.I've had this crush on her for like three years,but I hardly have had the chance to really talk to her.Well everytime I try my words come out all wrong.I don't usually get all fumbled up when I speak to people, just Her..My stomach is just in knotts..Anyway I figured she must be straight because I really, very much like her and she is very nice,but i Don't know her that well..How do I tell..some people are to hard to read.And well where i work you can't just ask or act like you got a big fat lezbo crush on someone ..Not that I don't think that thought may have crossed her mind because i get all retarted when i do see her.I feel like a big DORK!! and that's not really my style..SO can anyone help me figure out the signs.What can I do or say to her without making even more of an ass out of myself?? pls help!!


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tigerlily44
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Posted on Sun, Nov 23, 2008 16:04

Quoting: Originally posted by cherry2003 There is this HOTT nurse i work with.I've had this crush on her for like three years,but I hardly have had the chance to really talk to her.Well everytime I try my words come out all wrong.I don't usually get all fumbled up when I speak to people, just Her..My stomach is just in knotts..Anyway I figured she must be straight because I really, very much like her and she is very nice,but i Don't know her that well..How do I tell..some people are to hard to read.And well where i work you can't just ask or act like you got a big fat lezbo crush on someone ..Not that I don't think that thought may have crossed her mind because i get all retarted when i do see her.I feel like a big DORK!! and that's not really my style..SO can anyone help me figure out the signs.What can I do or say to her without making even more of an ass out of myself?? pls help!!

my advice... (and it comes from a lesbian who has had several "crushes" on straight women).... is that you will just know if she is interested in you ...


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Posted on Wed, Oct 22, 2008 18:17

Give her an affectionate kiss and see her reaction.


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Posted on Thu, Sep 04, 2008 11:02

Oh my gosh, I know how you feel! I have a little crush on my friend. She looks so cute! But she has a boyfriend. But sometimes I think she may be bi. I sure wish she is! She almost gives like hints that she is. It drives me nuts! Sometimes I want to ask her if she is! I guess the only way to find out if she is is to have some conversation. For example somehow make a conversation on lesbian. But just don't do bring it up right away. Maybe only start talking about that when you guys somehow saw something in TV that made you talk about same sex relationship. Maybe then ask her like 'what does she think in same sex couples' or something like that. Just be careful. I sure hope my friend is bi at least! I mean, what kind of straight friend would stick out there tongue in a sexy way! Or hug me and smell my hair?!Man is she messing with my head! Argh, I just want to grab her and steal a kiss! But she has a boyfriend. She seems to really like him. Is it possible for a girl might like other girls without them knowing that themselves?


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Posted on Wed, Jul 16, 2008 17:06

Get her into a conversation, few topics after awhile talk about a relationship. From there you know whether she's straight or otherwise. But dont act fast or you will lose her as a frend.

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Posted on Mon, Jun 23, 2008 06:47

tryto invite her for dinner in your place. Nice food and wine, soft music. candles all around


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