Hello,my name is Nova and I am new on this site and I am not sure what I am doing but Here it goes. I am a mother of three;Adults now with their own kids. I find myself at a cross roads in my life and I am not sure what to do. I have had my share of men in my life and all they did was abuse me in every way possible. I tried having a realationship with a woman a few years back and I fell head over heals in love,but she was cheating on me and it hurt more than I could bare. Now I am starting over.