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Posted on Sat, Aug 09, 2008 22:58

Flirting is so much fun and yet how many of us really get it right? Flirting is a lot more than just a bit of fun which leaves an undeniable sweet memory, laced with its freshness, romance, spell and verve. Flirting is perhaps the ancient instinct of human nature and is the very elementary base in impressing and surprising that special someone with its sheer passion and luster. Like all other human activities flirting is typically administered by a set of unrecorded laws of etiquette which dictates the mind whilst analyzing when, where, how and with whom to flirt. Healthy flirting teamed with subtleness finesse is socially acceptable and is definitely the very first step of a matured relationship. Depending upon the intensity flirting has three stages. Whilst the first stage is purely unintentional and can occur amidst normal conversation without the intention of impressing the other person, the second stage of flirting is definitely an intentional subtle effort to impress that special someone. The third stage of flirting is however an effort of impressing the other person with a series of purely planned, carefully designed and intended behavior where the flirt goes out of her way to impress someone. Flirting is a typical mind game of impressing the other person whilst employing your best tact and innate qualities for a cherished memory. It is indeed the art of saying a lot with less or no words to draw that special someone more close with the wink of an eye, with the flush of the cheek, with those parted lips and suggestive smiles. You certainly don't need to be the paragon of beauty to drive her crazy for you. Flirting is important to plan out a relationship, however it is just winning half the battle. The most important part of the act is to understand the flirting signals of the other person to ensure her interest. Being a good flirt requires apt flirting advice as it is the art of doing the right things at the right moment and oh yes most importantly with the right person. Flirting is fun but again it is difficult because there is a very slim line between being a successful flirt and being boring and crashing. Appropriate flirting advice makes the flirting a real enjoyable game whilst unfolding its passion subtly and significantly. Flirting advice 1: Choice of words is very important in flirting and to take the pleasure of the game try to avoid being rude. The best flirting advice is not to make obvious or nasty sexual remark. Flirting advice 2: Do not be an intruder. Understand the person's interest for you first and then strike up a conversation. The most effective flirting advice here is to be attentive towards their body language to decode their emotion. Flirting advice 3: The apt technique of Flirting should make your target feel wanted. Try to entertain her very subtly and do not turn out to be a funny entertainer. Flirting advice 4: The age old flirting advice is to keep your flirting intention and your flirting signs subtle. Don't make it too obvious that you are actually flirting with her. "Flirtation is like the slime on water-plants, making them hard to handle, and when caught, only to be cherished in slimy waters" - flirting is indeed an art of saying a lot with your smile, with your eyes and with your soft whisper. It is indeed the very initial stride to carry the relationship to a more matured level. Flirting is fun and is best enjoyed when done tactfully. You really don't have to be like Richard Gere or Elizabeth Taylor to make the girls go gaga for you. All that you need is your innate tact and few flirting techniques to make the best use of your posture, eyes and hands to impress your special somebody quite easily. Use the best flirting techniques to electrify her and then enjoy the passion of the game. Flirtation is the mind game to draw the attention without intention and is the very first step towards maturity. Know the correct flirting technique to send the apt signal which will suit almost any and every setting be it the coffee shop or the workplace, or the party zone or the club. Flirting technique 1: Eyes can say a lot and is an important element in flirting. Lock your eyes with the other person's for a time frame of 6 to 7 seconds and then slowly drop the gaze. Slowing down before dropping the gaze is an important flirting technique to express that "come hither" emotion. Flirting technique 2: Everybody loves a smiling face. Smile is the best way to express the openness and is an effective flirting technique to make you more attractive and approachable. Patti Wood, who happens to be an eminent body language expert, has quite ideally said that "the smile is the international signal of friendliness". Remember this and take it as an effective flirting technique to draw her closer without much effort. Flirting technique 3: One of the most victorious flirting techniques for a woman is to expose her neck a bit. Be it with the rhythm of the head tilt or be it with tempo of the classic hair flip, the very asymmetrical position of the white neck is sure to kill your special someone. The stylized gesture of intense eye contact, the pulse of casual touches, the suggestive smiles coupled with the batting of the lashes, footsies etc. are the way of flirting to express those sweet nothings in the most elegant way. All that you need are the right attitude, apt tact and adequate flirting advice to make her "feel" for you.


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Posted on Tue, Oct 14, 2008 13:45

I am practically new to this too. I have been trying to post a bit so that people can get a sense of me and if you all (whoever is interested)keep coming back to read my posts, then you will most definitely get to know me and see where it goes from there.


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Posted on Sun, Sep 28, 2008 18:51

yea iight


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Posted on Fri, Sep 05, 2008 03:16

i like wat u siad about flirting i agree with u


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Posted on Sun, Aug 31, 2008 10:31

beast47 I have tried flirting a couple of times, a few of those I turned out to be the funny entertainer, but at other times it actually worked. I like flirting, it is fun, and like you I haven't really put much thought into it. For me it really depends on the conversation. I just wanted give a little advice to those who haven't had the opportunity to do it, or let them know what they are doing. Oh and by the way, I am not a writer.


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Posted on Sat, Aug 30, 2008 21:18

after reading all of that-i think i would love to watch YOU actually flirt with someone--i truly enjoy flirting but i can't say i've ever thought it out so much--are you a writer or something?


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