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Posted on Sun, Dec 26, 2010 08:43

Sorry for being unexperienced and totally clueless about this but I gotta ask you guys, since I have no one else to ask (exp. my cousin and my clearly canadian angel em :) : How do we find each other? As in how do we find someone to date to chat close to our area? Yes I heard you say; "DUH this site is a solution!!" So is the internet the only way? Or do I need to find social places where lesbians and bi's hang out? Despite not liking any bars and discos. I find it so hard to find someone like me in Istanbul! Maybe because people like us have to hide in shadows unable to come out, just like me. It really annoys me. Hmm maybe I need to step up and come out soon. To set an example.


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Posted on Tue, May 03, 2011 02:17

Actually i doubt finding anyone in Greece lol nor Cyprus. Thank you for the idea tho, might try someday! But after my lates Istanbul discoverings; there are things going on here is well. Maybe not as much as expected but I'm going to give it a shot :)


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Posted on Sun, May 01, 2011 14:09

It is very difficult in a muslim country. Greece is not far from Turkey. Why don't you go and visit Greece or Cyprus? Best of luck. X

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Posted on Sat, Mar 05, 2011 03:02

Quoting jwilli12:

well by looking at your picture u shouldnt have a hard time finding someone. u are very beautiful. the hard part is finding those people that are in the same boat as u. i have recently found myself in this same place. looking for someone,but dont know where to begin. i do not know anyone else to go out with to find that someone.i recenlty had a married friend that told me she had a crush on me and pretty much ended our friendship at this point. we have some problems now bc of somethings we had happen btwn us. love with girls is sometimes quite complicated especially if u are not out,which she did not know i was interested in girls,she just happened to develop feelings for me. sorry u are having such a hard time.


Doubt looks has much to do with it (well at first it might ok) :)) Don't know where to begin still, therefor I decided to concentrate on developing myself in other parts of life. However that emptiness only grows bigger and bigger.


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Posted on Sat, Feb 05, 2011 21:25

well by looking at your picture u shouldnt have a hard time finding someone. u are very beautiful. the hard part is finding those people that are in the same boat as u. i have recently found myself in this same place. looking for someone,but dont know where to begin. i do not know anyone else to go out with to find that someone.i recenlty had a married friend that told me she had a crush on me and pretty much ended our friendship at this point. we have some problems now bc of somethings we had happen btwn us. love with girls is sometimes quite complicated especially if u are not out,which she did not know i was interested in girls,she just happened to develop feelings for me. sorry u are having such a hard time.


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Posted on Sat, Jan 22, 2011 21:22

Quoting goodtimegirl:

i feel like it's hard to be myself. i watch all those shows where it seems as if it's easy to coem out and everyone is a lesbian but in reality i don't know who i can trust.


Yes in tv shows they make it look easy. However in real life it's tough. Some people are not as open minded as they look and sound.


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Posted on Wed, Dec 29, 2010 10:33

i feel like it's hard to be myself. i watch all those shows where it seems as if it's easy to coem out and everyone is a lesbian but in reality i don't know who i can trust.


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Posted on Mon, Dec 27, 2010 06:33

Wow, bike rides and cook outs :( sounds very amusing and a great way to make friends who share something "big" in common. Well Kim, to be honest I doubt there's anything like that in Istanbul. However I will search for it. You see it's kind of hard to come out in a country with a muslic population of %80. It's like coming out in a Catholic town. I don't want to be treated like I committed a crime. For example even my relatives and work mates make fun of gay people and sexual preferences. All I get to say is; "why do you make fun of it? Its a choice, they are people like us. Just respect that."


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Posted on Mon, Dec 27, 2010 05:30

This is an excellent question! Online sites are popular but leave something to be disired as there is always an odd feeling not meeting someone face to face and developing an inperson communication...to me anyway.

I would suggest you look (online) for support groups and or social groups in your area. They are bound to have outings from bike rides to cook outs and it will give you an opportunity to meet other women in a non-dating vibe situation.  Meeting a women in a bar reminds me of waiting to be picked on the playground for a team doesn't it? Its not my choice of environment to meet women.

Karyn

 

 



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