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Posted on 06/03/2009

There usually are questions about coming out to your family, friends etc. But how can you come out to your young child? Am I nervous? YES! He is a pretty accepting person. But with societies negative views, religious views etc, I am wondering how to tell him. I don't care about what anybody else thinks, but he's my everything. Suggestions, Comments,



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Posted on 10/17/2009

9 years old is a little young for you to lay that on him, since you don't know what it is you want to to with your life yet. one kiss does not make a lesbian. since you have a gay couple next door see if you can go out with them to a gay club and see how you feel around gay women.if it feels o.k. try and meet some people while you're there for friendship first. they must like kids , but DON'T BRING THEM AROUND YOUR SON UNTIL YOU'RE SURE THIS IS THE ONE! you should never have a lot of diff. people in and out of your son's life.

when ever it happens, you should tell him first before you bring the person around and reassure him that he is still first in your life. good luck and take it slow.



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Posted on 06/06/2009

Well he is 9 years old. He was raised by me so I taught him not to discriminate. But media, society, or what have you, can still play a BIG part in what some one thinks or feels. For instance we have a Lesbian couple next door -(which is also, a biracial couple). My son knows that, and still chooses to play with their son who is 15. The reason I asked the question too Is that I have never really been with a female before. My former friend who ended up obssesed with me (and psycho) got me turned to the fact that I am bisexual, (because we kissed, and I liked it!) Another question. Where do I go from here?! I'm new to this!



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