I have a question. I am a supervisor and am in love with my old assistant. we no longer work on the same account but sometimes we collaborate on projects. what should I do?!

I don't even know her sexual preference although I assume it's hetero. She is two levels under me but only a few months younger than I. she has a soft voice and body a perfect coke bottle shape with jet black hair. She's guyanese and soft spoken. She's a shopaholic so she often brings her vicky's catalog over to my desk   more...

I have a question. I am a supervisor and am in love with my old assistant. we no longer work on the same account but sometimes we collaborate on projects. what should I do?!

I don't even know her sexual preference although I assume it's hetero. She is two levels under me but only a few months younger than I. she has a soft voice and body a perfect coke bottle shape with jet black hair. She's guyanese and soft spoken. She's a shopaholic so she often brings her vicky's catalog over to my desk to help her pick out underwear and bras or show me what she ordered already. I feel like it's an indecent exchange but this is what girls do? right? i am supposed to pick out bras for her perfect d breasts. i have a better over shoulder boulder holder in mind for her. my hands, lips, mouth and tongue. I don't need her to be mine but i wish she could just know. and then the thought wouldn't drive me crazy. I meant to send her flowers yesterday but didn't have the chance.

what do you think i should do? when we don't work to late i try to invite her for drinks but work has been crazy. help ease my thoughts. she gets so comfy around me, and my mind just wanders when she's around.

Hi there,

So I know EXACTLY what you're going through and I personally was too , buuuttt, maybe you could ease the question in a random conversation liiikkkeee if there's a magazine with a photo of two girls conveiniently kissing in it or something, maybe you could be like, so what do u think of that. I think there are a lot of chicks that like to be experimental you know, so even if you said something like "u know I could see myself kissing a girl if I was really drunk" or something, you kn  more...

Hi there,

So I know EXACTLY what you're going through and I personally was too , buuuttt, maybe you could ease the question in a random conversation liiikkkeee if there's a magazine with a photo of two girls conveiniently kissing in it or something, maybe you could be like, so what do u think of that. I think there are a lot of chicks that like to be experimental you know, so even if you said something like "u know I could see myself kissing a girl if I was really drunk" or something, you know ease it in so it doesn't make it too obvious, but also not too suggestive, and perhaps she may say, oh ya, if I was really drunk, at which point u could ask, how about sober..hehehe, and then laugh non-shellantly as if you wouldn't really do it.

Haha, just a thought, try it out.
P.S. the chick that I like that I think is gay but would never tell me made it abundantly clear that she wasn't 'into that', so she never found out :(.

~Suz - Good Luck!!!