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nooone
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Posted on Thu, Jul 08, 2010 00:27

You know I think there are times I may be waisting your time and mine. I thought i had thought things thru and knew what I wanted now I got a great girl whos going to have a broken heart cause we aren't clicking and its all my fault. I was so in a hurry to find someone to love I just jumped in head first and well it doen't seem much different than with a man (dang it) too many unspoken words I thought one way shes thinking another..We are all lesbians but we are all so different..I didn't know what all the terms ment and I was just looking for someone to love..I was looking for femme and I got soft butch and she won't wear womens stuff, got her a real diamond ring and she don't wear diamonds..this site isn't a game I for one am looking for a life partner and I FAILED TO DO THE REASURCH and looks like we both may get hurt here. I can't be the first one to fail at first try for love but I'm not into hurting someone I was wanting to love, I may have a few mood swings which isn't her fault but she is left with scilence when we don't connect..frankly she doesn''t have any idea how to please me and just doesn't listen...i know its not all about me but 50 percent is I won't lie and say it's all good when it's not.I know loving a woman is what I want but maybe not full time to start with. To my mate I am sorry for hurting you and shutting you out..does this make me unfit to keep looking or should I give up in order not to hurt someone else? Nothing is ever perfect but my heart says try again...so looking for a femme who doesn't do ciggs and doesn't drink every single day and who is willing to go slow and not think we are married the first date...are you out there?


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nooone
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Posted on Tue, Feb 19, 2013 06:34

Good friend,I am just waiting for you to make trip to US and I have to meet you.For three years you have stood by me and have comfort where there was none. You very well may be the best assat to ldates site,good ole common sense bless you for your encouragement....nooone



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spellegrinonlg
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Posted on Sun, Aug 22, 2010 19:57

to jrzeygirl239 - "good old fashioned dating" I was dumped after almost 70 exchanging emails because she was too "sophisticated." Best of all we haven't had any actual dates!! go figure :)


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Lawnut
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Posted on Sun, Jul 25, 2010 22:15

Nooone, I am sorry that you didnt get what you were looking for. I have been searching myself and dont want to take things too fast. I am femme and have no plans to be anything else. I am looking for butch but I wont fit for you because I do smoke although I dont drink. If this charasteristic is one you decide to change your mind about let me know. Good luck and I would enjoy being your friend none the less though.


Don't hate me cause I am me. Love me for the same reason! With love, Lawnut

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jrzeygirl239
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Posted on Mon, Jul 19, 2010 21:39

This is so classic...lesbians moving too fast and having expectations...those are 2 of the worst mistakes you could ever make...whatever happened to good old fashioned dating. Is everyone so screwed up from evryone that they have ever been with...let the baggage go and stop looking for love let it find you.



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nooone
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Posted on Fri, Jul 09, 2010 11:03

All is not lost, we all want what we want and if we cn make a change that would be fine with me, glad to know your keeping up with me and I wil try and call you this weekend your a great friend and this heckler own our back can stick it where the sun don't shine..luv ya babe


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uricka
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Posted on Thu, Jul 08, 2010 04:53

I'm sorry to hear that Nooone but its not too late...go back to where the two of you were and take it slow by dating (again), like...phoning each other, go for a good movie, go to Mcdonald (mcdonald?! what am i thinking), go to a gay bar and play pool (its fun), picnic at the park (is good), ...i don't know..just an advice if the two of you are willing to give it another try. Never close the door but if you don't want it wide open at least leave it ajar.... :)


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