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Annepat07
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Posted on Sun, Jun 10, 2012 21:12

I previously posted a blog about everything that was going on with my friend Emily and I.  Well I had basically stopped being friends with her because of everything that she put me through.  She has been the best and the worst friend that I have ever had.  I guess it is true that "you can get addicted to a certain kind of sadness."  She makes me feel like shit and yet I still can't seem to get over her.  I've spent years trying to get over her and crying over the loss of mostly our friendship, and I finally was done with her after she figuritively kicked me when I was at my lowest this winter.  I picked myself back up and with the help of all of my other friends I was able to finally be happy and I am happy.

 

Towards the end of May, my college has a spring concert and it's a huge party weekend.  I did not plan on inviting her, I wasn't frieneds with her, and I hadn't spoken to her in months.  However, my friend Dave invited her and Chris to my school.  Dave no longer was living at school because he was student teaching at home, but he was still considered a student and could get a guest ticket for Chris.  This meant that I had to get the other ticket for Emily and I really wanted to say no. So I asked my other friends from home, and since no one else could come I reluctantly agreed to have them come and stay in my room.  I had little hope for a friendship starting back up with Emily, but I knew given our history that we probably would make up.  I KNOW!!!! I should have said no and I should have thrown her out of my life!!!  But I wanted her so badly, and I missed our friendship so much.

So far its been pretty good, we have decided not to let Chris and Dave decide our friendship.  She knows that I'll always have feelings for her, but I need to not let her interfere with my relationships.  I deserve to be happy, and if she is going to stay with Chris and get married then she needs to let me move on. I think that as long as I keep my feelings from getting the best of me, she can't hurt me the way she did.  Read my other blog, and then maybe does anyone have any advice on what they would do in my situation. :)



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PurpleRox
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Posted on Fri, May 03, 2013 11:14

I think the key here is being strong and show her that you are capable of moving on without her. I understand your feelings for her, but if she has thrown you down before she won't hesitate and do the same thing again and again. As you said, without her you were able to be happy and are happy, so in fact you did not need her to get yourself back up. Either way, she wasn't a good friend as you thought, otherwise she would of been there for you..

OR if she was truly a good friend she would of known she was hurting you and step away, or at least sit down and talked things through. Seems to me, she just wants to keep dragging you...



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Posted on Mon, Apr 22, 2013 16:26

I have a somewhat similar situation. A girl I met last summer had become a good friend of mine, and I am not sure if it was meant to be a summer romance or if it was fate that brought us into each others lives...but I am thankful for it happening because now Ive become aware of a whole new side to myself. 

Anyways, it really depends on what she had done to you to determine how one can help. Did she string you along while dating Chris or were you two friends before or after him, did you have feelings all throughout the relationship? If you do want to talk, I feel like maybe we could help each other out. 



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Annepat07
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Posted on Fri, Oct 12, 2012 07:10

well I was young when I wrote this, and I am into that so whatever.



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Likingmachine
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Posted on Sun, Sep 23, 2012 18:24

What a pathetic loser.  How can you get hung up on such a bitch.  Some girls are into s and m. 



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Lydialovesyouu
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Posted on Thu, Jul 12, 2012 12:17

aww this is such a cute story :3



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