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Posted on Fri, Apr 16, 2010 01:16

So, I'm strugling to come out!! Therefor I can't find my perfect match because no one knows!! I was in a relationship with a guy, but I hadf to end it because I'm in love with my friend! There's no way of being with her and no way I could even tell her I hacve feelings for her, but I'd love it if I could just come out and finally move on in life, it causes so much hassle keeping things secret, it was fun at first but now I'm bored and want to settle down!


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Posted on Sat, Feb 18, 2012 14:15

katie i hope you find that special someone.gd luck.


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Posted on Fri, Jun 11, 2010 01:23

i know exactly how you feel.

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If there was one thing I was ever really good at in this world, it would be the power to push away ones I loved most. I assume it's a defense mechanism I use; hurt before you get hurt first. I had the ability to completely shut myself off, and walk away from those who cared about me. If I wanted you gone, it really meant I wanted you to stay‚ô•

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Posted on Mon, May 24, 2010 19:00

all I can say is and Ive been out for 25 years, is just do it. Seems like your making your life harder by thinking thinking and thinking.


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katiejones
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Posted on Wed, May 19, 2010 05:31

Hey... I don't know how to chat other than on this blog! X


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katiejones
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Posted on Wed, May 19, 2010 05:30

Hey... I don't know how to chat other than on this blog! X


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Posted on Thu, May 13, 2010 06:51

just start with telling one person then another and keep going. then the next time someone asks you about boys just say 'hmmm i prefer girls now' it works for me. most people dont care. some people seem to forget and start talking to me about boys again and some people just prefer not to talk about it. but i you think youll find by comming out, it might not be as easy as you think to find someone. well thats my case anyway, good luck tho you'll get over your friend, i know all about that too. :(


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Posted on Sun, May 02, 2010 18:18

I'm in love with my best friend. I lived in Ohio, then moved to KC, and left her because I was young and had no choice. One night, I decided to text her and tell her how I felt. She actually took it all in. No judgements. If your friend loves you, then she will accept you also. It most likely will bring you together closer, even if she doesn't have the same feelings. My best friend has made me mature into who I am, even though right now we can't be together, but I feel like one day we will spend forever together. (by the way, I moved back to Ohio for her)


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katiejones
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Posted on Sat, May 01, 2010 08:17

Hey guys, thanks for your advice! It helps a lot!!! Xx


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Posted on Sat, May 01, 2010 08:14

Hey guys, thanks for your advice! It helps a lot!!! Xx


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Posted on Sun, Apr 25, 2010 20:43

katiejones, Take some time to search your feelings, don't rush yourself, if you are not ready for boy/girl relationship. Keep your frindships with your friends. If you can, wait tel you are in your early 20s -24 to let everyone know about your feelings. Everyone at a young age are in that "not sure stage." When we rearch 20 - 24, we are more grownup and thinking more clearly. And, when the time is right, you will find your Mr/Miss right.


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Posted on Wed, Apr 21, 2010 09:56

Let it all out it's your life live it


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VickyR
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Posted on Sat, Apr 17, 2010 14:28

Coming out is always difficult. There will be some people that will find it difficult to accept. It takes great strength to come out - so good for you for starting the process. It isn't easy. Neither is being in love with your friend, whether you're gay or straight. Unrequited love sucks. Good luck with everything xx


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Posted on Sat, Apr 17, 2010 09:41

well you just need to spit it out girl and who ever dont like it dont need to be around you. After you get it out you will feel alot better and will be free.

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Posted on Sat, Apr 17, 2010 09:06

Girl, you're only 18...why not get to know yourself and your sexuallity before settling down You can't find love or gf not because you're not out..a lot of gay/bi women who are out can't find love or gf either What's up with women falling for their friends? Its like a new trend. My close friends and best friend are men and the only time i get too close with a woman is when i have a love relationship with her Stay kool Katiejones


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