Quoting lvlycr6:

I must say that whether you are looking for someone to just become friends or a relationship, I know I am not the only one that is wondering what methods are not working or how to even meet someone on this particular site. However, I must admit, I am still writing this blog in hopes that someone might have a few ideas to help me on my way to even beginning a conversation. Do you find that you must become a member to find results using this site? Or is there something I am doing or missing that could help me meet someone even if to be friends? Thank you for reading this.

Quoting removed_Wigeon:

I have found this site not too responsive. I just updated my profile to see if maybe my honesty in my initial post was too much. I guess finding people with whom to converse, is a slippery slope. Looking for honest communication and friendship is one avenue. Looking for the magic tie to a lifelong relationship is another....good luck in your quest.