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nerdy0101
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Posted on Fri, Oct 29, 2010 20:46

Can someone tell me why it is so hard for ME to find someone? :( is it me? Am i doing something wrong? Theres this girl in my class who i really like but she shy just like me and silent too. But idk if she likes me bck or if she taken. And idk what to do but sit behind her and day dream. god i feel stupid.


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Posted on Sat, Feb 18, 2012 13:21

u are hott,jus try talk to her.ask her to go to lunch sometime or sm ting and from that try to be her friend n see how it works from there.


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Posted on Sat, Mar 05, 2011 02:05

you are hot want to kiss


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Posted on Sat, Mar 05, 2011 02:02

Quoting AlexKaden:

I think everyone experiances those feelings of unknown and scary territory when they are interested in someone. So you definatly should not feel stupid. I have to agree with what everyone else said, buck up chuck and say hello :).


you are hotter than the sun


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lesgirl2005
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Posted on Sat, Mar 05, 2011 01:59

you are hotter than the sun what is your idenety


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Brittany2011
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Posted on Sat, Feb 26, 2011 10:53

I find it hard too n shy to ask


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nerdy0101
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Posted on Tue, Dec 28, 2010 19:49

thank you all for your feedback but the sad thing is before i could say or done anything she left class and i havent seen her since... :( but im not going to stop trying. :)


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Posted on Sat, Dec 25, 2010 16:18

sounds like its really gonna do yr head in ,just do it u will feel so much better:)


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Posted on Thu, Dec 23, 2010 22:38

Yes.... just talk to her about homeworks and school assignments...then go from there. Good luck !!


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Posted on Thu, Dec 23, 2010 05:36

i think you're a very pretty woman and shouldn't feel bad about anything...i'm going through the exact same problem and i don't seem to be able to get out of it...you see Ziva's solution is a good one but i'm not sure it works for shy ppl. Just be yourself and go talk to her...you'll be fine :)


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Posted on Mon, Nov 29, 2010 07:18

When Unsure if someone is straight or not, or your too shy, the best and most flattering thing you can say is "you have a pretty smile".. if they are interested they will smile back, if they're not they will say thanks and be done. Promise.


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Posted on Thu, Nov 11, 2010 21:51

Don't feel stupid! Theres nothing wrong with being shy :) when youre ready you will be able to talk to her :) keep ya head up!


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Posted on Wed, Nov 10, 2010 11:56

I think everyone experiances those feelings of unknown and scary territory when they are interested in someone. So you definatly should not feel stupid. I have to agree with what everyone else said, buck up chuck and say hello :).


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Posted on Sun, Oct 31, 2010 15:24

I think you should set aside your shyness, and talk to her:)


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Posted on Sun, Oct 31, 2010 12:06

just tell her she is beautiful, and ask her to lunch


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Posted on Sun, Oct 31, 2010 10:06

Most of us have the same questions. Its like we are all looking at each other thinking and wondering "who's going to break the ice?". Why not make the first move and say "hello" Good luck :)


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