I am new to this on line stuff. Because I do not know where to go to meet a woman who is interested in me, I have decided to try this out. I don't go to bars any more. Most of the people I know are straight. I found out at a football party I liked woman 9 years ago. I have explored that part of myself since then with 5 woman. Now I would like to settle down with one who wants to live their life with me. I just don't know where to look, or where to put myself so she will see me. This was a last resort. I am 41 and don't want to waist time and energy on some one who only wants to play with my feelings, use me, and have fun. I want something deeper, lasting, and passionate. I have almost excepted the sad truth that I may never find her, and I will be alone. Out of all these people, what are the odds some one will match with me. Good... I say.. So, here I am.