The most impotant thi
ng that I do is to make sure she is turned on, you take your time so she is confortable with what you are doing to her body, mind and soul. The kissing, touching and then LOVE making. I dont have just dsex with a girl, I make LOVE to her. The best place to start is on a dance floor where you can hold each other, light kisses and then everything will just come together, NEVER force yourself on anyone and If I have a girl that has never been with another woman, I make it all about her and only her. Just make love to her, plain and simple