Okay, here's the deal. I've kissed a few girls (you know the whole drunken pub pash that seems to be the hit these days)... But lately everywhere I go I find myself checking out girls and can't get them out of my head! It's driving me crazy and I can't talk to anyone about it as I feel my friends just wont understand..ARGH!! It's actually getting on my nerves more than anything... Any advice send it my way!!! ;)
hi all, im new to this site. I have read your comments, and i found them very lets say interesting/intriguing. I ask myself this question alot. I can tell you when i noticed my definite appeal to the same sex. I stumbled upon this website fantasyexotic, totally looking for a different type of reference for my reasearch. Well, i before i noticed, i was on this website for hours. Anyways, i have always felt an attraction to the same sex, but i thought all women must have these emotional urges. So, i guess you can call me a late-bloomer. I have always had the typical on/off relationships with men, but never dared to tap into my sapphic urges. I dont know, Ughhhh, lol! Its all crazy to me now-a-days. lol! I guess i can say were all complicated beings.
It would appear that you are by what you have written in your post. However, you could be bisexual. Only time will determine the answer to your question. If, on the other hand, you are not attracted to men at all, then I would say you are a lesbian.
This is a very good question for a person who is in the begining. You see the women beauty, more you see it, moooore you want it. You have to go in L bars, where you'll find friends who will understand you. I think that people can't say exactly what is wrong or right. Don't feel stupid, be proud of you.
It's troue that this life is difficult, but who cares. Listen your hard, be yourself, and be careful with the straigts' people, because their feelings aren't the same as yours.
yeah. it's not easy when you grow up surrounded by hetero Everything -and w/everyone assuming you're straight i think, by that nature, sometimes we just assume it too. even if the thoughts don't match up.....
... i would like to help out on this... i think you are just starting and my own personal advice is be on guard with your own self... i mean watch out for every move that you do... think more than twice if it is really what you want... if it gives youa different kind of joy then why not... but if it is only, to satisfy a curiousity be careful...
Be yourself, discover you! there's no right or wrong, you don't have to choose. You will know once your ready. Being afraid is normal, when understanding sexuality therefore coming out can be scary. Enjoy what comes your way, if you like what you see, who care what people think....right?