I'm attracted to older women. There's something very sexy about a woman that is secure and KNOWS what she wants. Plus the added wisdom and maturity (in some cases). They are also generally more stable...
I was just shuffling through the forum and I went into a fantasy of a 15 year old crushing on an older woman. Wow, and years later she took her clothes off for you. Cool. I am totally happy for you. I think thats one opf the best stories I heard.
have sex with e i love when they are in control of me one time an older woman made me run around the block nude and on made me do a 7 hour lapdance which i had to say i loved !! date me make me do crazy things i will..
The first woman I was really attracted to was my moms best friend Jill when I was 15 and she was in her mid 30s. She was a big woman with really large breasts and used to wear really low cut shirts to show them off, which used to drive me crazy.
She was my first real lesbian crush, but I didn't tell her until years later. I hadn't seen her for about 10 years and saw her at the store. I went over to her house, we had a few drinks and I finally told her. It was really awkward and embarrassing for her to say she was not into girls.
I didn't think she would ever speak to me after that, but she called me a few weeks later and invited me by again. After a few drinks, she left the room and came back out completely in the nude, and told me I had caught her off guard when I first told her and that she had been fantasizing about me ever since. We were lovers for close to a year after that, but she decided to marry again after that, so that was pretty much that.
Iappreciate your comment. It gives me courage to write since I am a 69 y.o g/mother. I love life and have been with women much younger than myself and some only about 11 yrs. younger. I like mature women who understands what love is all about.
I am also an older woman, 69, and love to live life. I have been in a non sexual relation ship with a female for 14 years and am ready to find real love. She was not this way when we met but became cold within a few months. I am not a paid member yet but this is an interesting website. I haven't filled out by profile yet but will be doing it soon. I am a lovable person that likes to laugh and treat my partner with respect. Would like to hear from others like myself.
Even in my 30s, I wasn't interested in what we called the "diaper dykes" -- lesbians in their late teens to late 20s. Now I'm 58 and still like the more mature gals. Nothing like a well-seasoned woman! Stumbled into this site by accident. Since we have to pay to e-mail, I don't have much hope, but...anybody in the LA or Orange County area, maybe we can figure a way to connect. (That's CA, although I moved here from Orange County, FL)
I'm older - my last three partners have been younger as is my current partner.
It's interesting to me that the age difference is often discussed in terms of "control". I don't equate experience with control, sexual or otherwise. To the extent that I've ever found age differences problematic, it's always been BECAUSE of an imbalance in power and control.
Experience and maturity aren't age reliant. I've been with women my age and older who were stuck in a developmental stage and acted like selfish, immature brats.
The most irksome aspect of younger/older relationships are the stereotypes often attach to them. I'm no body's "sugar Momma", nor am I more or less competent than my partners. Age is not a guarantee of Wisdom. Youth is not a guarantee of an adventurous, fun loving spirit.
My sexual dynamics are not contingent upon the age of my partner. Feeling like somebody's "Mother" is a desire killer for me. Besides, people can be lousy lovers at any age.
Yes. I am very attracted to my lecturer at university and cannot stop thinking about her. In fact, it's quite painful to even think about. She is at least 12 years older than me (not old in any way), is married and has just had a baby, so there is no chance whatsoever in me even confessing. I have no idea how to handle this but it's been killing me for 2 years now and I have another year to go around her. I know there is always a little sparkle in her eye when we speak but I am both praying that it is not and am scared, at the same, that it is just an illusion. Any suggestions? What could I possibly do?