its just this i have my first relationship with a lesbian but we break up already coz she always get jealous of guys...i find my self guys easily get attracted to me than lesbian,..but i like lesbian i find them fit to me.i dont know what to do.i'm looking to have a lesbian relationship again who will really love me and understand me.i think lesbian dont find me beautiful to them...

It seems that I should be reasonably able to ask, what am I into but it's. just . not. the. same.
Men find me attractive and are are aggressive about it, so it's generally easy to tell but women. I don't know what they want to or what they are looking for and therefore, how to make myself attractive to them. 
Even if they were attracted, unless they say it, I WOULDN'T KNOW. 
What attracts you guys to women?

Hi, I can see where killerlove is coming from, i have just recently come out and i know that guys find me attractive, they are never too shy about showing interest, but how do i know if im attractive to other women, i am worried that i wont be good enough, i know just how fussy we can be,,,, i am so scared of not be good enough looking.

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I find the hardest thing for me is knowing the difference between causual fliting that some start girls do and real lesbians. How do u realize the difference without making a fool out of yourself?

no offense...why don't you just add a little more info about yourself on the q/a portion of this site...show them a little sparkle...good luck!

I'm agreeing with ms spice...u must be dealing with the blind. U r hott, and I can't imagine someone not being attracted to u.

Wow! I dont know what lesbians you have been around but you are very attractive! Give it time.