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Posted on Thu, Dec 23, 2004 23:57

I recently met a person who wanted "love", but didn't want sex. I wanted both the love and sex. To make a long story short, we broke up.

Has there anyone out there who was with a person that didn't want sex at all, no matter what?

Thanx!



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Posted on Sun, May 30, 2010 04:00

Yea I agree. I don't know how I feel about having sex. Having intimate moments is surely important for a relationship- but being intimate and having sex are two different things- and I don't know If I am comfortable with the whole idea of sex. I mean; I have experimented with a friend and she really enjoyed it, and I enjoyed pleasing her... but I felt so wrong after... i could barely look at her for weeks after... I just dont know. It's very difficult to think about. sex; it's so hard to think about sometimes...



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Posted on Wed, Feb 10, 2010 16:13

My partner lost interest in having sex about 4 yrs into our 13 & 1/2 yr. relationship. I know she loved me & I know I loved her. Once & awhile I would try to be intimate in a sexual way but I was always turned away. We were intimate with our emotions, & physically, like cuddling or holding each other. It bothered me for quite sometime, but I was able to accept because I really loved her. There are some people who either just aren't into it or other reasons which could vary from growing older & losing libido; especially as estrogen/test levels drop to someone who may have been sexually abused (& may not remember yet.) Sorry it didn't work out for you, mine ended too for other reasons.

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Posted on Wed, Jan 27, 2010 09:41

blasian you are too gorgeous! How are you?

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Posted on Sun, Jan 17, 2010 12:58

Jettagirl, I agree with you.



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Posted on Sun, Jan 17, 2010 12:55

Hello Mandy, with whom are you agreeing with? You are a beautiful lady , by the way.



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Posted on Sun, Jan 17, 2010 12:52

Totty1983 I agree, with you. I could not be in a relationship with a woman I truly love, and not touch her, feel her, or kiss her passionately, that is the best sex ever with the one you love.

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Posted on Sun, Jan 17, 2010 12:46

I agree, the right women will come along, and I am willing to wait for her, its worth the wait for that one special lady I'm still waiting to meet.

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Posted on Thu, Jan 07, 2010 21:39

Love and sex are two different things to me anyway. I mean there is a difference between making love and having sex. At least to me that is so. But love and affection are unbeaten and sex or rather making love is an important part of any romantic relationship/



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Posted on Mon, Jan 04, 2010 17:43

I did know a person who was asexual. She was perfectly content with her lifestyle, but she was also content with being alone as well. Something you should consider, is that you didn't settle just to be with someone and not alone. Never settle. What you are looking for is out there and it will be worth the wait.



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Posted on Sun, Jan 03, 2010 04:38

I'm a hot and horny lesbian in Saudi ... any hot woman for a great lick ????



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Posted on Fri, Dec 11, 2009 21:02

i want love. i want to be in a relationship based on love and not sex but unfortunately nowadays sex rules. its like relationship can not survive without sex.

love is all i need, well, ok, i need some hugs and kisses too



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Posted on Sun, Dec 06, 2009 19:09

hay im wanting sex and love i can't just have 1 coz when you love someone or inlove with someone id want 2 touch them and feel them close to me awww theres nothing better to have the one you love close to you :) this is me in the pic :)

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Posted on Fri, Nov 27, 2009 14:15

i want any hot lady to kiss my deeply



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Posted on Mon, Nov 09, 2009 23:13

That's me. I am interested in love, but not sex. Intimacy, sure. But not sex. I mean, I am not closed to the idea of sex, but I've never been with someone, so I don't know for sure how I would feel about it. It doesn't seem important. I have experienced intimacy and love... I have no interest in experiencing sex when I can have these two things without it. A friend of mine told me that sex and love are completely different things... I didn't realize that at first. I just said - why have sex without love? But then I realized that I just didn't see a point in sex.



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Posted on Wed, Nov 04, 2009 22:12

Thats a short statement, but its so truth. Greatings from Mandy

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Posted on Sun, Oct 04, 2009 19:26

I think sex and love go hand in hand, saying I love you is wonderful, hugs and kisses little affections too, but sex is an intimacy that bring us together, closer.

-Celeste

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Posted on Fri, Aug 14, 2009 16:14

you are so sexy, i would love my first time with girl to be with you. i want to chat.



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Posted on Sun, Jun 21, 2009 18:46

I really like you my cudly baby



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Posted on Sun, Jun 21, 2009 18:45

I can give you love



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