Yea I agree. I don't know how I feel about having sex. Having intimate moments is surely important for a relationship- but being intimate and having sex are two different things- and I don't know If I am comfortable with the whole idea of sex. I mean; I have experimented with a friend and she really enjoyed it, and I enjoyed pleasing her... but I felt so wrong after... i could barely look at her for weeks after... I just dont know. It's very difficult to think about. sex; it's so hard to think about sometimes...
My partner lost interest in having sex about 4 yrs into our 13 & 1/2 yr. relationship. I know she loved me & I know I loved her. Once & awhile I would try to be intimate in a sexual way but I was always turned away. We were intimate with our emotions, & physically, like cuddling or holding each other. It bothered me for quite sometime, but I was able to accept because I really loved her. There are some people who either just aren't into it or other reasons which could vary from growing older & losing libido; especially as estrogen/test levels drop to someone who may have been sexually abused (& may not remember yet.) Sorry it didn't work out for you, mine ended too for other reasons.
Love and sex are two different things to me anyway. I mean there is a difference between making love and having sex. At least to me that is so. But love and affection are unbeaten and sex or rather making love is an important part of any romantic relationship/
I did know a person who was asexual. She was perfectly content with her lifestyle, but she was also content with being alone as well. Something you should consider, is that you didn't settle just to be with someone and not alone. Never settle. What you are looking for is out there and it will be worth the wait.
hay im wanting sex and love i can't just have 1 coz when you love someone or inlove with someone id want 2 touch them and feel them close to me awww theres nothing better to have the one you love close to you :) this is me in the pic :)
That's me. I am interested in love, but not sex. Intimacy, sure. But not sex. I mean, I am not closed to the idea of sex, but I've never been with someone, so I don't know for sure how I would feel about it. It doesn't seem important. I have experienced intimacy and love... I have no interest in experiencing sex when I can have these two things without it. A friend of mine told me that sex and love are completely different things... I didn't realize that at first. I just said - why have sex without love? But then I realized that I just didn't see a point in sex.