There is a difference between intimacy & sex. I believe it is possible to share intimacy without sex, and if you know the difference sex loses it's importance. If your partner had an accident and could never have sex- would you break up with her? What about communication and companionship?
You are probably right about the screwed up in the head. She had probably been molested by some man or relative and equated sex with the feeling of guilt and betrayal. Of course, that could just be my story. ;)
I was with a woman for almost a year that wanted love but did not like sex. She would not hold hands or kiss or anything. I went out with other women and ended up dropping her eventually. She was screwed up in her head
Yep, in Birmingham, AL. I was with a little butch and she was so "messed up" in the head from the men she had dated that she thought of sex as a bad thing. Nothing you can really do about it though. Until they realize that sex is a part of a healthy relationship they will keep loosing out on great women/people.