Like I said Bridget, not sexual. Get to know other lesbians, make an attempt to actually form a relationship. Where I live there a few lesbians, we all live alone, as do many others I know in my age group in other towns and cities.
Oh. hehe. Sorry about that. A lot of the comments on this site have to do with lustial things. All that sexual stuff so I simply took it the wrong way.
And personally- I think it's because there is expectations and it is sometimes hard for one to find who they really are and go with it if they are used to being something else. you know what I mean? just societal norms... personally I am lucky to live in a place where There is even a Church that is more for the LGBT way of life. Good luck in all your searching. And feel free to continue to talk! I would love to better get to know you.
To make what contact? For me it can be a touchy subject because I suppose after living in societies standards for so long it can be hard to think of going down on a woman properly... but i mean. I don't ussually have that problem.