Yes rainbowglad is right,
you have to go very slow when it comes to internet dateing, as people are such con artist and make up a whole lot of stuff. So its best to take it slow and go with your gut instincts hun.
Sorry to hear you were''duped' Not a pleasant experience.... Yes... I agree... one has to be aware that 'words'(especially 'written'ones,) can be cleverly used to mislead...just 'go-slow' allow the time to get-to-know another a lot more before 'believing' a sweetly strung group of alphabet letters...
Yes I have and I thought I had found someone but she wasn't what she said she was, so you do need to be very careful. It is so easy for anyone to write nice things about themselves but it is harder once you meet them in person. Lets just say I'm really gun shy now and I always thought I was a good judge of character but she really fooled me. So good luck with your seach