I have thi big problem. I don't get recognize as lesbian. I've never been approach by a girl, even in a gay club . Ieven wear rainbow on a daily basis. No success. I still attract these 40 something year old men! Can u belive that sh&t?!?I think its because I don't have the gay look as I call it. So last week I decided to get a mohawk. Well the folks at work liked it but I'm not sure how its gonna work out ina the club. I just need a few tips on how to look more "lesbian" and how to get recognized by my people. Please help.
liten maybe its just one of those things where even in a gay bar u r just to cute that people feel you afraid to approach you. Ladies try smiling when in gaye parties r just chatting to a stranger I get asked if I am gay when I go out but hey I just say I like kissing girls and they like kissing me llol lesbians roll on
You look lesbian by going to a lesbian bar and approaching girls. You don't need to look like a dyke to pick up a girl! If there is a specific girl you're after, find out what she's into. If not, then wait till you find a girl who's attracted to you. You just have to make sure that you're looking in a place where a lady is ok picking up another woman. I've been looking for a girl for several months and if a girl w/ a mohawk came by I'd look the other way -- not to say some girls aren't into that though. Be you and look in the right place, and you'll find someone!