i am trying to find someone who is true to me and herself. i have talked to two lady's i meet on the computer and both of them did the same thing to me they would talk to me for a bit then just stop can someone please help me understand why this is happing to me. Thank you
Yes if people dont like what the other one is saying then they will move on, ask me, I have had this happen a couple of time. It seems things are going good then you say one some thing that turns them off and boy do they get turned off, It seems like everyone is looking for that "perfect" mate but I hate to tell you it may not be out there and you will have to take second best.
I have read your writing and do relate to your thought process. You are so matured in your perspect on the psychological aspect of people's mind nd behaviour, it is very refresing. I am sure you are a very good kind person, cool and understanding to your friends to pacify and soothe them whenever their personal lives are dissarrayed. I wish there were more like you in every community who promote logical reasoning like you.
I wanna be your friend, as I am a creative person who is interested in almost anything that governs our lives, whether its politics, movies, interests, humor, or interesting events.
Don't take it personally....this is online dating site, some people would talk or message you once or twice if they don't get what they want from you, they move on to the next one. It varies what these people are looking for, samples...chemistry, like minds, cyber sex, just a little talk, level of education, some kinds of "fun", etc etc...I know it could be frustrating and confusing sometimes, just don't take it personally, its not you...its them.