Why does it seem next to impossible these days to find grounded,honest,mature women?I am a older (49)Afriican American middle of the road butch who is attracted to lip stick women and it is hard to meet decent women.I am attractive,decent,hard working,just baffled in Columbus ohio.

I feel the same way, here in Philly, I wonder if I am the only attractive, single, educated lady in the city???

I'm a 59 year (young) woman who is trying internet for the first time with encouragement from my friends who are computer literate, to seek out someone for companionship/dating. This is alot harder than I thought it would be, but I am perservering. Its easier in one way,because you can almost screen someone before going any further... aaahhh technology... scary but nice too.