its just this i have my first relationship with a lesbian but we break up already coz she always get jealous of guys...i find my self guys easily get attracted to me than lesbian,..but i like lesbian i find them fit to me.i dont know what to do.i'm looking to have a lesbian relationship again who will really love me and understand me.i think lesbian dont find me beautiful to them...
yea, im the same way. Sure guys have no issue telling you they think your pretty. But How do I know when I find women who are guy and if they are in to me? I have enough problems being insecure about guys is even worse with woman.
You cannot verify if a person likes you until you just ask. You have to be blunt especially to females. Mainly because it's hard to read our body language. Sure she may smile at you, stare and giggle but question yourself and ask, "Does she do this to everyone?"
Observe, or JUST ASK. Be blunt around it and stop beating around the bushes. If you're timid, then I advise you investigate.
You will never be able to tell if a girl is interested if you just lean back and pray that she can mind read,be bold,be confident n just bite the bullet and say "Your beautiful" If they can not tell as I'm blind when it comes to being hit on but just see how it go's from there,if you get knocked back,keep trying as you learn to handle things differently and handle things better as every person is different so Good Luck and I hope this helped?
It seems that I should be reasonably able to ask, what am I into but it's. just . not. the. same.
Men find me attractive and are are aggressive about it, so it's generally easy to tell but women. I don't know what they want to or what they are looking for and therefore, how to make myself attractive to them.
Even if they were attracted, unless they say it, I WOULDN'T KNOW.
What attracts you guys to women?
Hi, I can see where killerlove is coming from, i have just recently come out and i know that guys find me attractive, they are never too shy about showing interest, but how do i know if im attractive to other women, i am worried that i wont be good enough, i know just how fussy we can be,,,, i am so scared of not be good enough looking.