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  • View author's info Author Posted on Mar 31, 2011 at 05:58 PM

    My girlfriend broke up with me. I feel empty and like lifeless. I can't get her out of my head, she was my first love. I feel alone and afraid I won't get anyone else. I need help. Any tips on getting over her or Wht I should do. Please help me someone.
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  • View author's info Posted on Jun 02, 2011 at 07:56 PM

    Thanks, JMO, for your support. I'll think about what you said. I'm still keeping busy, getting out in the community. H.

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  • View author's info Posted on May 27, 2011 at 09:06 PM

    Ummm "a face to make a dog puke" is the first thing you need to remove from your personal thought process. I think the problem when someone starts searching for friendship or something more serious is looks...that just sucks. Think more positively of yourself...what is it about you that people will love not the other way around. JMO
  • View author's info Posted on May 21, 2011 at 01:26 PM

    God, I can so relate. I've started getting involved in the community to get my mind off it, and it has worked fairly well. I still have panic that I'll never find anyone-- I'm too shy and have had bad luck with dating sites, not to mention my face could make a bulldog puke. I just have to keep busy, reward myself for every small thing I get right. I know she's out there for you. I'm here too, if you need to talk. People are rooting for you. Someone to hold you through it. H.

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  • View author's info Posted on Apr 08, 2011 at 03:50 PM

    I have been there, and it is very painful. Start by doing little things for yourself, like getting into activities like films, walks on the beach, clubs, etc. It is OK to grieve the loss for a little while. Then you need to celebrate life again. Finding a friend to just share with, but not overload, is also good. Travel if you can, take up new hobbies and meet new people. The summer is coming up-lots of fun there if you want it. Feel free to chat with me if you like.
    It does really suck, but we do move on.

    hugs, allie
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