ever been attracted to a coworker?? how did you deal with it?

Of course, we've all been there, but remember this, if you decide to pursue a same sex relationship in the workplace with a heterosexual woman and it doesn't work out, you will have a beast of the worst kind on your hand.  The person might even take it as far as to claim sexual harrassment, so it's really not a good idea to mix your business or professional life with pleasure.  There are plenty of willing participants looking to play outside of the workplace.  I believe that is where one should find their play partners and lovers.  It's definitely less complicated and will leave your job and professional reputation intact.  We have to remember that there is a lot of discrimination already against gays in the workplace with no laws in place to protect the gay community in the private work sector, so pursuing a same sex relationship with another co-worker who is straight, will not be perceived well by other heterosexual co-workers and staff and may lead to you losing your job or experiencing other legal ramifications.  So stop and think about it really well before pursuing romance in the work place.  It's just not worth it!

I play along with her. I do notice she treats me on n off the record -- meaning when she's in office she addresses me very professional. However, when we go out; her non verbal Ques r lesbian but her verbals r straight. I get mixed signals from her. We r just friends n only friends. Too hard so I'm going to find a lesbian out from the office n into play time.

I am attracted to a woman. I get a hard on when I see her. I now know how a man feels. I do respect that. In order for the physical attraction 2go away one . I had a hard on 4several months. It would no go away. That's how I feel when I am around this one straight woman.