What is the kindest way to break up with someone? Lesbian Troubles Forward to friends

  • View author's info Author Posted on Nov 20, 2012 at 12:45 AM

    HELP!    Is there an easy way to break up with someone who has abandonment issues?
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  • View author's info Posted on Nov 21, 2012 at 09:22 AM

    Ouch. I don't think there's any "easy" way. If she has that kind of baggage she needs to deal with it on her own through therapy or whatever. Your only responsibility is to be as kind and supportive as  you can when you let her know its over. Maybe try to talk about the things you feel you need to head towards and don't emphasize any faults you may have seen in her.
    Maybe it will help if you call her a day or two later to see how she's doing and do so on occasion after that so she doesn't feel as abandoned. But be careful in case she thinks that's a signal you're still interested.
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