Home > Lesbian Forums > Topics BiplanePilot has created > What is the kindest way to break up with someone? Previous topic Next topic
What is the kindest way to break up with someone?
Author
Available only
to logged in members
Posted on Tue, Nov 20, 2012 00:45

HELP!    Is there an easy way to break up with someone who has abandonment issues?



Reply / add comments      Quote      Report abuse   Bookmark and Share
Available only
to logged in members
Posted on Wed, Nov 21, 2012 09:22

Ouch. I don't think there's any "easy" way. If she has that kind of baggage she needs to deal with it on her own through therapy or whatever. Your only responsibility is to be as kind and supportive as  you can when you let her know its over. Maybe try to talk about the things you feel you need to head towards and don't emphasize any faults you may have seen in her.
Maybe it will help if you call her a day or two later to see how she's doing and do so on occasion after that so she doesn't feel as abandoned. But be careful in case she thinks that's a signal you're still interested.



Reply / add comments      Quote      Report abuse   Bookmark and Share
Previous topic     Next topic
Mobile Mobile Android Android Follow Us facebook twitter pinterest google+
Copyright © 2001 — 2014 LDate.com. All rights reserved.

LDate is owned and operated by SuccessfulMatch.com. LDate does not conduct background checks on the members of this website.