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why is it so hard?!

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Can someone tell me why it is so hard for ME to find someone? :(
is it me?
Am i doing something wrong?
Theres this girl in my class
who i really like
but she shy just like me and silent too.
But idk if she likes me bck or if she taken.
And idk what to do but sit behind her and day dream.
god i feel stupid.
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u are hott,jus try talk to her.ask her to go to lunch sometime or sm ting and from that try to be her friend n see how it works from there.
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you are hot want to kiss
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I think everyone experiances those feelings of unknown and scary territory when they are interested in someone. So you definatly should not feel stupid. I have to agree with what everyone else said, buck up chuck and say hello :).

you are hotter than the sun
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you are hotter than the sun what is your idenety
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I find it hard too n shy to ask
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thank you all for your feedback but the sad thing is before i could say or done anything she left class and i havent seen her since... :( but im not going to stop trying. :)
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sounds like its really gonna do yr head in ,just do it u will feel so much better:)


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Yes.... just talk to her about homeworks and school assignments...then go from there. Good luck !!
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i think you're a very pretty woman and shouldn't feel bad about anything...i'm going through the exact same problem and i don't seem to be able to get out of it...you see Ziva's solution is a good one but i'm not sure it works for shy ppl. Just be yourself and go talk to her...you'll be fine :)
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When Unsure if someone is straight or not, or your too shy, the best and most flattering thing you can say is "you have a pretty smile".. if they are interested they will smile back, if they're not they will say thanks and be done. Promise.
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Don't feel stupid! Theres nothing wrong with being shy :) when youre ready you will be able to talk to her :) keep ya head up!
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I think everyone experiances those feelings of unknown and scary territory when they are interested in someone. So you definatly should not feel stupid. I have to agree with what everyone else said, buck up chuck and say hello :).
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I think you should set aside your shyness, and talk to her:)
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just tell her she is beautiful, and ask her to lunch
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Most of us have the same questions. Its like we are all looking at each other thinking and wondering "who's going to break the ice?". Why not make the first move and say "hello"

Good luck :)