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bisexual or lesbian?

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I really don't know anymore... I have never been in love with a boy before untill I met this great guy... I'm not sexually attracted to him, but he makes me feel great, like nobody did before... now I really have serious doubts wether I'm really a lesbian or maybe I'm a bisexual... straight is out of the question...
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GREAT
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It sounds so familiar...I logged here to solve this problem. Still thinking about this.
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You are very cute, ychepak.

I agree that it does not matter if you are bi or lesbian. You can only live life true to yourself else why bother fooling yourself. I have been married 27 years and have vehemently denied my bi-sexuality until just a few days ago. It is liberating to admit that it's about the person and not necessarily a gender based attraction. I have been in love with someone but could not bring myself to tell them the truth. It took 8 yrs but I finally had a talk with them. They knew already. I guess I did not hide it as well as I had thought. I should have known from the start because whenever I was with her I would tremble. All I wanted was to be with her, hear her voice, feel her touch. I agonized because of my belief system formed in the Christian church. Finally I made the decision to confront this secret inside me. I was not rejected by my friend and we are still good friends despite what I shared with her. She is a lesbian and has been ever since she was 14. She has challengingly asked me if I am willing to "go all the way". I think I am going to do it because if I don't then I will always have this unrequited love and wonder what could have been.
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I had that problem at first and then i got with a guy and hated it...and i was like OMG at first then i found this great girl and shes made me more happier than anyone in the world let alone some guy...i`m lesbian but i definetly agree with most of them follow your heart..but since your not sexually attracted to him...theres maybe a part of you that maybe doesnt want to be switching back and forth to guys and girls...who knows..but good luck
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hello
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Yup I defenetly think you should just follow your heart I consider my self Bisexual but I havent been with a female in a long time and I AM so much more attracted to girls. But anyways thats my opinion and i am sticking to it. . .GOOD LUCK BABE!!!!
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i say neither..i like aliens...yeah there pretty hot you know...hmmmmmm have fun girls my little lezo palz!! i (L) MaRvIn!!
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I know it can be confusing. Hell, Im with a guy but he's the only part of the male population that i AM attracted too. He of course loves it and pushes me to find a girl to play with, but it the decision is up to you. No one else can make it for you.
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im love girls and im a lesbien lets chat sometime
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hey all are in love !(life is the life)
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Ive been lez since I am 15..
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I was married for 19 years,knowing I was gay.I wanted to please my family and friends.Finally,I got tired of putting myself on the backburner,to make everyone else happy,but myself.I'm divorced now,been out for 3 years.From now on,I'm going to follow my heart.I deserve to be true to myself.Stop worrying about what everyone else thinks and just go with your instincts.
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i'm bisexual and i do have a boyfriend...
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For me, it's not the gender of the person that matters, it's always been the person. Just stick with what you feel, and I wish you the best of luck! <3
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Labels don't matter. Go with what you feel!
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I have a boyfriend, whom I am emotionally/physically attracted to...though I only go for those who are bi or lesbian, to be safe.

My friends, they don't know I'm bi-curious. They never will. Because it's part of my life that's kept secret. I'm not ashamed of it...that's just how people know me...straight.
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in life we are all faced with chooses and you are face with one, what exactly are you going to wear today? There is no choice of what you are. You are a young lady with feeling and you need to go with those feelings. As long as you are comfortable in your own skin do not try to wear anyone else.