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  • author ( 20, lesbian | Redding, CA, USA )

    we would meet at the bar for the first time ever and have drinks then when that's done maybe go back to ur place for some fun if u want to

  • author ( 57, bisexual woman | Dayton, OH, USA )

    Lunch or coffee out or drinks in the evening - to get to know one another & talk. I love to learn about new people! And / or a hike thrown in there !

  • author ( 28, lesbian | Saint George, Grenada )

    I am not a female who live for the hype I am a low key person ... I would want my first day to be like a movie date of a walk on the beach or chill at a restaurant and have some drinks and talk etc .

  • author ( 26, bisexual woman | Omaha, NE, USA )

    First date idea would be having a few drinks because that always makes things less tense, laughing a lot & getting to know each other.

  • author ( 24, lesbian | London, England - London, GBR )

    Drinking while talking about deep random thoughts that no one will ever think about, trying to describe why am i weird, failing to do so.

  • author ( 29, lesbian | London, England - London, GBR )

    Erm, certainly not the cinema. I did that once, it was awkward as hell. Drinks, a walk, or something utterly random to be decided at the time.

  • author ( 35, bisexual woman | Brisbane, Queensland, Australia )

    Catch up for a drink and see where the night goes. Conversation is key and I can be a bit nervous so I'd pretend as if we are already good mates to cut the tension. Once we get talking, the night will be awesome I'm sure...  see more >>

  • author ( 53, lesbian | Missoula, MT, USA )

    First dates are pretty uncomfortable so I rather go somewhere where music is playing. Where the two of us could dance and have a lot of lighthearted fun. A concert in the park, karaoke, or watch a band.

  • author ( 45, lesbian | Brisbane, Australian Capital Territory, Australia )

    Something simple like a drink and listening to a band in a Sunday and than a stroll along the water, to get to know one another.

  • author ( 49, lesbian | Elk Grove, CA, USA )

    First we meet for coffee like I said talk get to know each other little bit and if all goes well will have dinner or lunch. Depending on what time we meet.

  • author ( 31, bisexual woman | Miami, FL, USA )

    Let's go to happy hour meet and see where things lead form there. Easy going just down to earth scene.

  • author ( 28, bisexual woman | Nacogdoches, TX, USA )

    I think meeting for drinks is a good way to go. Whether it be coffee, alcohol or just soda! It's a good ice breaker and can be used a short meeting to break tension and see if we click!

  • author ( 35, bisexual woman | Coronado, CA, USA )

    I'd like to meet for dinner or drinks and get to know each other., see if there's a mutual attraction. We could take out our dogs for a walk (or at least mine) or go to a concert, I am seeing Guns 'N' Roses on Aug. 22nd...  see more >>

  • author ( 37, bisexual woman | St. Leonards-on-Sea, England - Sussex, GBR )

    Maybe to a bar for a drink then on to a meal.. Nothing formal just a relaxing day/evening and see where it leads

  • author ( 42, lesbian | Redditch, England - Worcestershire, GBR )

    Grab something to eat and drink somewhere where we can hear each other speak, see if there's a connection.